My In-Laws Treat Me like a Maid & Made Me Cook for Them While I Was Sick — I Took It up with My Husband

A woman faced a challenging situation living with her parents-in-law to provide care and support for her ailing father-in-law while also taking care of household chores. Initially, the arrangement seemed manageable, but as time went on, she began to feel overwhelmed and unappreciated. Her husband and in-laws did not contribute to household responsibilities, and she often felt like a live-in maid.

Things took a turn for the worse when she fell ill, and despite her illness, she was still expected to cook dinner and perform cleaning tasks. Her mother-in-law’s expectations added to her stress. When she discussed her concerns with her husband, he offered to help but did not follow through.

The situation became increasingly untenable, and the woman sought advice on Reddit. Many users advised her to consider leaving the house or even ending her marriage, as the living arrangement and her husband’s lack of support were causing her significant distress.

In an update, the woman shared that she took steps to address the situation. She began transferring her wages to her private account, removed her savings from the joint account, and moved closer to her family. The catalyst for her decision to leave was her pregnancy, which led to more interference from her parents-in-law, particularly her mother-in-law’s overbearing involvement in preparations for the baby.

Despite discussing her concerns with her husband multiple times, he did not take her concerns seriously or support her decisions. Ultimately, the woman decided to move out and initiate divorce proceedings to create a healthier environment for herself and her unborn child.

This case highlights the importance of addressing relationship issues and seeking support when feeling overwhelmed. Ultimately, the woman chose to prioritize her well-being and the well-being of her child by removing herself from a toxic living situation.